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Typically marriages are not held during this period, and many Jews deliberately refrain from ostensibly pleasurable activities, such as listening to music, dancing, taking vacations, and sometimes even shaving! In fact, most Orthodox Jews will refrain from any activity that might require the recitation of the Shehecheyanu blessing.
In short, the Three Weeks of Sorrow is a time for reflection and mourning over the destruction of the Temple and constitutes a time of corporate reflection intended to lead Israel to teshuvah.
The First Nine Days of Av When the month of Av begins, more serious reflection is given in preparation of the solemn day of the 9th of Av. Beginning from Rosh Chodesh Av, all luxuries are carefully avoided and many common actions (such as washing clothes, taking baths for pleasure, etc.) are discouraged. This period of time marks the most solemn time of reflection on the Jewish calendar, with a marked emphasis on teshuvah and the cry for the salvation of am Yisrael.
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